• Vaginismus

    Vaginismus

    Vaginismus is an involuntary tensing of the Vagina. What?   This is going to be gold, you can tell already can't you? Get your popcorn and take a seat. Picture my vagina as the plant from the little shop of horrors, or one of those medieval traps you step on and the clamps onto your leg. A shark's mouth or even the mouth of...
  • Pretty Girl Syndrome

    Pretty Girl Syndrome

    I have never heard of this term before; “Pretty Girl Syndrome” Having an awkward conversation about my feelings on men being separated and immediately going onto Tinder. I'm hit with; You only feel that way because you have pretty girl syndrome.   Sorry, What!   So apparently because I would be considered 'pretty' or 'attractive' I have the luxury to 'choose' who I'd like...
  • doggy style

    doggy style

    So many things about heterosexual relationships are very foreign to gay couples. I’m often in fits of laughter at the expression on my gay friends faces when particular subjects are raised. Doggie style is one of them. No, it’s not the act or position, it’s why! Sure, for many, I imagine this position is very pleasurable. For me in a heterosexual relationship, it’s not...
  • Attitude about Boobs

    Attitude about Boobs

    We all seem to get these backhanded compliments about our boobs. Why? Why are boobs such a hot topic, it's not like they are at eye level? Men want them to be:  On show, presented like a smorgasbord, tempting, admired, big, round, perky, side boob, cleavage, voluptuous, accessible, desirable, sexual, stimulating or stimulated, fake and so on. Yet in society, we shame them if...
  • Straighty 180

    Straighty 180

    Am I too Straighty 180? I think about this a lot. I am open minded, but I have some pretty heavy morals, standards and values. I'll set the scene. A man I know, not incredibly well, but have a bit to do with him due to my work. He is older than I am, 10 years, maybe he is 50 or so. Businessman, well...
  • People Watch

    People Watch

        After a random inappropriate question, I sat back and watched people walk past and wondering a few things myself… What noises do they make during sex? Do they do anal? Does she swallow? Has he tasted his own cum? Does that sweet old lady still give her husband BJs? How often does she masturbate? Does she squirt? How many times can he...
  • Size Matters

    Size Matters

        Size Matters.... I was reminded of this story just yesterday and I’m sure it’s common, but in the ‘unspoken category’ for most. Many years ago, more than I’d care to admit, at a rugby summer 10’s carnival, one of the club players dashed past the spectators nude. The cheer from the crowd was deafening. I remember having a break your neck moment...
  • Detox

    Detox

      It seems we are all detoxing from something! Fast food, alcohol, lifestyle, toxic people. But what about sex?   Off the back of a still lingering Covid lockdown in some areas, a group chat of friends from my youth, there is a lot of witty banter about Covid lockdown sex. We are laughing at the thought of those stuff shirt politicians scratching their...
  • Is a woman’s orgasm really that intimidating

    Is a woman’s orgasm really that intimidating

      Is a woman’s orgasm really that intimidating for both men and women? In an effort to understand a men’s sex ego, I think we need to peel back some layers of societies gorilla chest banging and ask man to embrace his vulnerability and ask a woman; What do you want? What do you like? Am I doing it right? Do you like this?...
  • Judgement or Filter

    Judgement or Filter

    Are we too judgmental when looking at a new partner with all our 2021 criteria filters? I remember as a young woman working at Centrelink I’d have young men ask me out, my criteria was Do you have a job? If no you don’t get any further questions, NEXT! (savage right) Now at 39, I think we have the options to be very choosey,...
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