• Judgement or Filter

    Judgement or Filter

    Are we too judgmental when looking at a new partner with all our 2021 criteria filters? I remember as a young woman working at Centrelink I’d have young men ask me out, my criteria was Do you have a job? If no you don’t get any further questions, NEXT! (savage right) Now at 39, I think we have the options to be very choosey,...
  • The worst hang over ever!

    The worst hang over ever!

    What's your worst hangover from? Red wine Tequila Gin Brandy Cocktails Mixed drinks (UDL's) How about a man? Do you get a man hangover? Yep, not even joking, you know what I'm talking about. I can hear a few muffled groans of approving regret here. You know it's like when you go out and look at all the food options and still eat that...
  • Learning about sex

    Learning about sex

    Where did you learn about sex? Think about it for a minute, I'll wait here quietly! School At home Church Porn Magazines Social media School; did you learn that you will get STI /STD if you have sex? At home: that sex leads to babies In Church: That sex is only between a married man and woman so that you can have a family...
  • Are you in an Emotionally Abusive Relationship with your Vagina

    Are you in an Emotionally Abusive Relationship with your Vagina

      Are you in an emotionally abusive relationship with your vagina? You’re looking at me blankly! How many vaginas have you seen? Quiet from the LGBTQ portion of the crowd, this question is for all the heterosexual women? On TV Porn Magazines Google In-person? Sure we’ve all had unsolicited dick pics with an erect 🍆 in hand! However, how many explicit pussy pictures do...
  • Willing vs Wanting (Enthusiastic Consent)

    Willing vs Wanting (Enthusiastic Consent)

    Straight culture and sexual confinement are at the forefront today for women and men who are sexually active. In straight culture, I am going to say that when men want to have sex women allow it and submit. But are they merely willing or actually wanting? Let’s go with my experience. On plenty of occasions, I’ve had sex when I’ve not been 'in the...
  • LGBTQ+ is one judgy community

    LGBTQ+ is one judgy community

    Going to a party and I felt because I have been married to a man, have kids and now I'm with a woman, I'm seen as not 'actually' gay. or I'm too pretty to be gay or I don't look gay enough   Take a look at Portia de Rossi...... Does she look gay!   Have you checked out Instagram and seen all the...
  • Not having a threesome, mate

    Not having a threesome, mate

    Standing in my ex-husbands driveway, with the tray of his ute between us, he has realised that yes I am now with a woman. He is going through a roller coaster of emotions. Yes I have emotionally and physically moved on. But the one emotion that still sticks with me is watching the look on his face and the tone of his voice as...
  • What sort of sex do you think we are having?

    What sort of sex do you think we are having?

    I can honestly tell you I have never looked around at any of my friends and family and wondered what sort of sex they are having. Is this normal, do you wonder what sort of sex your friends have? #mymindboggles My GF at work, in a male dominated industry is asked by an older man, likely in his very late 50's or very early...
  • Looking through different eyes

    Looking through different eyes

    The question is posed to me: 𝒟𝑜 𝓎𝑜𝓊 𝓉𝒽𝒾𝓃𝓀 𝓎𝑜𝓊 𝓁𝑜𝑜𝓀 𝒶𝓉 𝓉𝒽𝑒 𝓌𝑜𝓇𝓁𝒹 𝓌𝒾𝓉𝒽 𝒹𝒾𝒻𝒻𝑒𝓇𝑒𝓃𝓉 𝑒𝓎𝑒𝓈 𝓃𝑜𝓌 𝓉𝒽𝒶𝓉 𝓎𝑜𝓊’𝓇𝑒 𝓌𝒾𝓉𝒽 𝒶 𝓌𝑜𝓂𝒶𝓃?   The question is posed as we are watching another episode of Ellen/Elliot Pages 'Gaycation'  I’m making ooh and aarh sounds and nodding my head as we watch. The answer is YES, I definitely see things differently, however, it’s due to...
  • LGBTQ+ what does that mean?

    LGBTQ+ what does that mean?

    LGBTQ+ what does that mean? 𝕀’𝕞 𝕘𝕦𝕟𝕟𝕒 𝕡𝕠𝕡 𝕤𝕠𝕞𝕖 𝕥𝕒𝕘𝕤! I cannot believe we still smack a label on everything and everyone. I am sure that Gen Alpha is either all for a tag or label or so far past the label, they won't accept a label! Let's talk about this though, as I've had a few unusual experiences around this. I've never been...
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