• Size Matters

    Size Matters

        Size Matters.... I was reminded of this story just yesterday and I’m sure it’s common, but in the ‘unspoken category’ for most. Many years ago, more than I’d care to admit, at a rugby summer 10’s carnival, one of the club players dashed past the spectators nude. The cheer from the crowd was deafening. I remember having a break your neck moment...
  • Detox

    Detox

      It seems we are all detoxing from something! Fast food, alcohol, lifestyle, toxic people. But what about sex?   Off the back of a still lingering Covid lockdown in some areas, a group chat of friends from my youth, there is a lot of witty banter about Covid lockdown sex. We are laughing at the thought of those stuff shirt politicians scratching their...
  • Is a woman’s orgasm really that intimidating

    Is a woman’s orgasm really that intimidating

      Is a woman’s orgasm really that intimidating for both men and women? In an effort to understand a men’s sex ego, I think we need to peel back some layers of societies gorilla chest banging and ask man to embrace his vulnerability and ask a woman; What do you want? What do you like? Am I doing it right? Do you like this?...
  • Judgement or Filter

    Judgement or Filter

    Are we too judgmental when looking at a new partner with all our 2021 criteria filters? I remember as a young woman working at Centrelink I’d have young men ask me out, my criteria was Do you have a job? If no you don’t get any further questions, NEXT! (savage right) Now at 39, I think we have the options to be very choosey,...
  • The worst hang over ever!

    The worst hang over ever!

    What's your worst hangover from? Red wine Tequila Gin Brandy Cocktails Mixed drinks (UDL's) How about a man? Do you get a man hangover? Yep, not even joking, you know what I'm talking about. I can hear a few muffled groans of approving regret here. You know it's like when you go out and look at all the food options and still eat that...
  • Learning about sex

    Learning about sex

    Where did you learn about sex? Think about it for a minute, I'll wait here quietly! School At home Church Porn Magazines Social media School; did you learn that you will get STI /STD if you have sex? At home: that sex leads to babies In Church: That sex is only between a married man and woman so that you can have a family...
  • Are you in an Emotionally Abusive Relationship with your Vagina

    Are you in an Emotionally Abusive Relationship with your Vagina

      Are you in an emotionally abusive relationship with your vagina? You’re looking at me blankly! How many vaginas have you seen? Quiet from the LGBTQ portion of the crowd, this question is for all the heterosexual women? On TV Porn Magazines Google In-person? Sure we’ve all had unsolicited dick pics with an erect 🍆 in hand! However, how many explicit pussy pictures do...
  • Willing vs Wanting (Enthusiastic Consent)

    Willing vs Wanting (Enthusiastic Consent)

    Straight culture and sexual confinement are at the forefront today for women and men who are sexually active. In straight culture, I am going to say that when men want to have sex women allow it and submit. But are they merely willing or actually wanting? Let’s go with my experience. On plenty of occasions, I’ve had sex when I’ve not been 'in the...
  • LGBTQ+ is one judgy community

    LGBTQ+ is one judgy community

    Going to a party and I felt because I have been married to a man, have kids and now I'm with a woman, I'm seen as not 'actually' gay. or I'm too pretty to be gay or I don't look gay enough   Take a look at Portia de Rossi...... Does she look gay!   Have you checked out Instagram and seen all the...
  • Not having a threesome, mate

    Not having a threesome, mate

    Standing in my ex-husbands driveway, with the tray of his ute between us, he has realised that yes I am now with a woman. He is going through a roller coaster of emotions. Yes I have emotionally and physically moved on. But the one emotion that still sticks with me is watching the look on his face and the tone of his voice as...
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