• Beginners guide to the gender Spectrum

    Beginners guide to the gender Spectrum

    To put this simply, like I’d explain this as if I was explaining to my grandmother:   Gender identity refers to the internal/psychological sense of self, regardless of what sex a person was assigned at birth.   You might have heard these referred to as “masculine” and “femi- nine” pronouns such as: she/her/hers & he/him/his. Many people do not identify as strictly masculine or...
  • Love me for who I am

    Love me for who I am

    ᴡʜᴏ ᴀᴍ ɪ?   38yo Woman Mother Photographer  Business owner Girl next door Soccer Mum Mum of boys Sister Aunty Cousin Daughter  Niece   I may not go to church or believe in god but I do hold many idealistic Christian values.   I’m educated, an avid reader, interested in current affairs. Watch the political news, pay attention to world economics.    Humanitarian, feminist,...
  • Gay match making

    Gay match making

    “Just because you have a gay friend doesn’t mean introducing us is a match made in heaven”! 𝕋𝕙𝕚𝕤 𝕚𝕤 𝕒𝕨𝕜𝕨𝕒𝕣𝕕! I understand that the straight community has the logic that all gays stick together. And yes, it’s somewhat true. We prefer our own company to yours. However, it’s hard to find gay friends. Just like the straight community, you want friends with the same...
  • The PH level of my vagina

    The PH level of my vagina

    I saw this super funny meme, months ago about not wanting to upset the PH level of my vagina with your 🍆 I understand how this rings true now that I'm in a relationship with a woman. It's true, the PH level of my vagina is very important and fragile. Doesn't take that much to upset the balance and well, that's not pleasant for...
  • Another dimension

    Another dimension

    When we move on from one relationship to another. The dynamic of the new relationship is always affected by the relationships past.   𝕿𝖍𝖊 𝖌𝖍𝖔𝖘𝖙𝖘 𝖔𝖋 𝖗𝖊𝖑𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖔𝖓𝖘𝖍𝖎𝖕𝖘 𝖕𝖆𝖘𝖙!   Watching something from the Australian Psychology Society about step parents, I realise the many dimensions of relationships, in particular mine!   Enter New Relationship: > With someone who doesn’t have children of their own >...
  • Body Image Issues

    Body Image Issues

    So I saw this post on Ellenny swim and it got me to thinking about the double standard with men rocking the 'dad bod' and women with body image issues. Today at the town pool we went to a pool party, it was not one pool party but two. I’m comfortable in getting in the pool with swimmers on and today I’m wearing what...
  • What defines me

    What defines me

    My GF did school drop off this morning, she hasn’t done this on her own with our little preppy as yet. This morning she’s met with one of the other prep mums who introduces herself and she says:   ‘𝐻𝒾 𝓂𝓎 𝓃𝒶𝓂𝑒 𝒾𝓈 ‘X’ 𝒶𝓃𝒹 𝐼’𝓂 (𝓉𝒽𝑒 𝓌𝒾𝒻𝑒 𝑜𝒻 𝒶 𝓁𝑜𝒸𝒶𝓁 𝒷𝓊𝓈𝒾𝓃𝑒𝓈𝓈 𝑜𝓌𝓃𝑒𝓇)'   Now I’m not sure exactly the point of saying your...
  • How’s your gaydar?

    How’s your gaydar?

    How’s your gaydar? Mine needs calibration! My gf in Woolworths the other day says as we head down the health food isle past one of the staff stocking a shelf. ‘She’s gay’ Instantly I’m on the defense, you can’t say that, that’s a stereotype based purely on her ‘girl with the dragon tattoo’ hair cut she is sporting. I look back at her, she...
  • LGBTQ+ is one judgy community

    LGBTQ+ is one judgy community

    Going to a party and I felt because I have been married to a man, have kids and now I'm with a woman, I'm seen as not 'actually' gay. or I'm too pretty to be gay or I don't look gay enough   Take a look at Portia de Rossi...... Does she look gay!   Have you checked out Instagram and seen all the...
  • Not having a threesome, mate

    Not having a threesome, mate

    Standing in my ex-husbands driveway, with the tray of his ute between us, he has realised that yes I am now with a woman. He is going through a roller coaster of emotions. Yes I have emotionally and physically moved on. But the one emotion that still sticks with me is watching the look on his face and the tone of his voice as...
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