• Body Image Issues

    Body Image Issues

    So I saw this post on Ellenny swim and it got me to thinking about the double standard with men rocking the 'dad bod' and women with body image issues. Today at the town pool we went to a pool party, it was not one pool party but two. I’m comfortable in getting in the pool with swimmers on and today I’m wearing what...
  • What defines me

    What defines me

    My GF did school drop off this morning, she hasn’t done this on her own with our little preppy as yet. This morning she’s met with one of the other prep mums who introduces herself and she says:   ‘𝐻𝒾 𝓂𝓎 𝓃𝒶𝓂𝑒 𝒾𝓈 ‘X’ 𝒶𝓃𝒹 𝐼’𝓂 (𝓉𝒽𝑒 𝓌𝒾𝒻𝑒 𝑜𝒻 𝒶 𝓁𝑜𝒸𝒶𝓁 𝒷𝓊𝓈𝒾𝓃𝑒𝓈𝓈 𝑜𝓌𝓃𝑒𝓇)'   Now I’m not sure exactly the point of saying your...
  • How’s your gaydar?

    How’s your gaydar?

    How’s your gaydar? Mine needs calibration! My gf in Woolworths the other day says as we head down the health food isle past one of the staff stocking a shelf. ‘She’s gay’ Instantly I’m on the defense, you can’t say that, that’s a stereotype based purely on her ‘girl with the dragon tattoo’ hair cut she is sporting. I look back at her, she...
  • LGBTQ+ is one judgy community

    LGBTQ+ is one judgy community

    Going to a party and I felt because I have been married to a man, have kids and now I'm with a woman, I'm seen as not 'actually' gay. or I'm too pretty to be gay or I don't look gay enough   Take a look at Portia de Rossi...... Does she look gay!   Have you checked out Instagram and seen all the...
  • Not having a threesome, mate

    Not having a threesome, mate

    Standing in my ex-husbands driveway, with the tray of his ute between us, he has realised that yes I am now with a woman. He is going through a roller coaster of emotions. Yes I have emotionally and physically moved on. But the one emotion that still sticks with me is watching the look on his face and the tone of his voice as...
  • What sort of sex do you think we are having?

    What sort of sex do you think we are having?

    I can honestly tell you I have never looked around at any of my friends and family and wondered what sort of sex they are having. Is this normal, do you wonder what sort of sex your friends have? #mymindboggles My GF at work, in a male dominated industry is asked by an older man, likely in his very late 50's or very early...
  • Looking through different eyes

    Looking through different eyes

    The question is posed to me: 𝒟𝑜 𝓎𝑜𝓊 𝓉𝒽𝒾𝓃𝓀 𝓎𝑜𝓊 𝓁𝑜𝑜𝓀 𝒶𝓉 𝓉𝒽𝑒 𝓌𝑜𝓇𝓁𝒹 𝓌𝒾𝓉𝒽 𝒹𝒾𝒻𝒻𝑒𝓇𝑒𝓃𝓉 𝑒𝓎𝑒𝓈 𝓃𝑜𝓌 𝓉𝒽𝒶𝓉 𝓎𝑜𝓊’𝓇𝑒 𝓌𝒾𝓉𝒽 𝒶 𝓌𝑜𝓂𝒶𝓃?   The question is posed as we are watching another episode of Ellen/Elliot Pages 'Gaycation'  I’m making ooh and aarh sounds and nodding my head as we watch. The answer is YES, I definitely see things differently, however, it’s due to...
  • LGBTQ+ what does that mean?

    LGBTQ+ what does that mean?

    LGBTQ+ what does that mean? 𝕀’𝕞 𝕘𝕦𝕟𝕟𝕒 𝕡𝕠𝕡 𝕤𝕠𝕞𝕖 𝕥𝕒𝕘𝕤! I cannot believe we still smack a label on everything and everyone. I am sure that Gen Alpha is either all for a tag or label or so far past the label, they won't accept a label! Let's talk about this though, as I've had a few unusual experiences around this. I've never been...
  • Hi my name is Juanita

    Hi my name is Juanita

    Hi my name is Juanita. I thought that I might do a little introduction to my inner voice. I'm a thinker, sometimes an over-thinker. I'm all about the WHY. I like to dissect everything, pull it apart, look at it from all angles, touch, taste, smell, and make sure I can fully understand. I like to get views from all angles. A bit like...
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