• Judgement or Filter

    Judgement or Filter

    Are we too judgmental when looking at a new partner with all our 2021 criteria filters? I remember as a young woman working at Centrelink I’d have young men ask me out, my criteria was Do you have a job? If no you don’t get any further questions, NEXT! (savage right) Now at 39, I think we have the options to be very choosey,...
  • The worst hang over ever!

    The worst hang over ever!

    What's your worst hangover from? Red wine Tequila Gin Brandy Cocktails Mixed drinks (UDL's) How about a man? Do you get a man hangover? Yep, not even joking, you know what I'm talking about. I can hear a few muffled groans of approving regret here. You know it's like when you go out and look at all the food options and still eat that...
  • Funny Dildo Story

    Funny Dildo Story

    We all have a random embarrassing situation or story with &/or about our sex toy(s). Some time back I’m visiting one of my friends, she has a toddler, I can’t recall his age. Those with a toddler know that they have an uncanny ability to lull you into a false sense of security, perform a disappearing act and in 30 seconds create a level...
  • Bisexual Stigma

    Bisexual Stigma

    In mainstream sexual media there is a high presence of bisexual women. The ultimate male fantasy, 1 guy with all his dreams coming true with 2 women at one time. Sexy, I get it. But where are all the bisexual men? 1. Could it be that they’re still in the closet? 2. Is there a double standard? 3. Or in the age of the...
  • Penetrative sex is not the only sex

    Penetrative sex is not the only sex

    Common misconception: Penetration is the only form of real sex! I’ve been asked if I; Miss the 🍆 ? Who wears the strap on? How many dildos do you guys have?   In a time when we have almost normalised all varieties of KINK; Anal sex Eating ass BDSM   Yet some think that for a woman to be satisfied, she still needs a...
  • Are you in an Emotionally Abusive Relationship with your Vagina

    Are you in an Emotionally Abusive Relationship with your Vagina

      Are you in an emotionally abusive relationship with your vagina? You’re looking at me blankly! How many vaginas have you seen? Quiet from the LGBTQ portion of the crowd, this question is for all the heterosexual women? On TV Porn Magazines Google In-person? Sure we’ve all had unsolicited dick pics with an erect 🍆 in hand! However, how many explicit pussy pictures do...
  • Disconnect

    Disconnect

      Being in a new relationship I feel reset. I’ve got the opportunity to not make previous mistakes. Owning current errors and being accountable. One thing I’ve noticed is the point of disconnect. I’ve come to realise that my external quiet = internal noise. When this happens it's like some of my plugs get pulled. Now to be 'quiet', can be about anything;  ...
  • Is eating pussy a feminist thing?

    Is eating pussy a feminist thing?

    Is eating pussy a feminist thing?   What an amazing question!   Talking with a male friend in his 30’s, educated, a professional of his field, forward-thinking, he says to me; Feminism is a little like Trade Unions. (Hold your breath) They have their place, and over the years have made great ground on rights and liberties for those they stand for. However, somewhere...
  • Beginners guide to the gender Spectrum

    Beginners guide to the gender Spectrum

    To put this simply, like I’d explain this as if I was explaining to my grandmother:   Gender identity refers to the internal/psychological sense of self, regardless of what sex a person was assigned at birth.   You might have heard these referred to as “masculine” and “femi- nine” pronouns such as: she/her/hers & he/him/his. Many people do not identify as strictly masculine or...
  • Love me for who I am

    Love me for who I am

    ᴡʜᴏ ᴀᴍ ɪ?   38yo Woman Mother Photographer  Business owner Girl next door Soccer Mum Mum of boys Sister Aunty Cousin Daughter  Niece   I may not go to church or believe in god but I do hold many idealistic Christian values.   I’m educated, an avid reader, interested in current affairs. Watch the political news, pay attention to world economics.    Humanitarian, feminist,...
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