Is a woman’s orgasm really that intimidating for both men and women?

In an effort to understand a men’s sex ego, I think we need to peel back some layers of societies gorilla chest banging and ask man to embrace his vulnerability and ask a woman;

• What do you want?
• What do you like?
• Am I doing it right?
• Do you like this?
• Does this feel good?

If you’re not sexually fine-tuned or in tune to feeling her sexual response, how else do you know what she likes?

Then women feel like they can’t ask for this or that, or they want something else, more, different, in order to not offend or upset their partner.

Nobody’s ego wins here!

Is this all part of a man's preconceived perception of;

What sex is?

What women want?

Have we watched too much Hollywood sex? And forgotten how to sexually stimulate each other? Or is a woman’s orgasm really that intimidating for both men and women?

How do we express our sexual identity without fear?